I realize my previous post may confuse those who have known me for a while. I mentioned Victor and as most of you know, we broke up in 2018 and I had to move back to Pennsylvania.
A lot has changed since then. I don’t blog about my personal life as I once did. I’ve become a more private person and that has to do with my family.
My uncle had done some pretty hardcore searching to find my blog and social media websites. He would read what I posted, tell my aunt and my would proceed to badmouth me to my mother.
That made me become very private when it came to what I post on my blog. It is the reason why I don’t blog as much as I once did. I miss blogging.
But I want to explain my mention of Victor in the previous post.
As you all know, I moved back to Pennsylvania in April 2018. I was beyond hurt. I did my best to move on. I dated. I met people. I had a sort-of boyfriend for about five months. I say sort-of because although I tried to make it a relationship, he wasn’t committed. He was just a narcissist, liar, and user.
Victor and I never stopped talking. We stayed friends though it was hard in the beginning.
In late November 2018, we began talking about our relationship and what went wrong. What prompted it was that he ended his friendship with one of the people who interfered in our relationship.
I was completely honest with him and how I felt. I told him what the problems were. It was then we began to fix our relationship. We started talking all the time again. We got back together. We made plans for me to move back to San Antonio.
I’ve now been in San Antonio for over a year. I moved here in June 2019.
And I truly am happy with Victor. His friends who interfered are no longer in his life. We live alone this time. It’s been great.
Victor and I in Corpus Christi last year.
It’s funny how quickly change can happen. I didn’t think we would ever get back together. I didn’t think I would ever be back in San Antonio. I realize though there was no one else for me but Victor.
Trust me, I tried. I did date. And I didn’t find anyone else. Plenty of guys wanted me. However, none wanted to take the time to get to know me. They wanted to jump into a relationship and I wasn’t going to do that.
I had met a few guys I liked. Nothing came from it. I didn’t find anyone who I connected with as I do Victor. Perhaps, I was meant only for him as I’ve never been able to open my heart to another quite as I have him.
I can say it is good to be loved. Truly loved. And to be able to return that love.